This is a very awkward question to ask. You see…I have been sexually frustrated for years. My husband and I don’t have sex at all. This has led me to having affairs which have been all good but somewhat embarrassing as at first I did not know what to feel or how to feel.
I want to have incredible sex. I don’t want to have a love affair but want to be a «loving» sexual partner when I do have sex with men. Those are my tendencies. I am confused as to which technique I should learn more about – Tantra or Kuma Sutra.
I tend to have that loving touch, kissing, pressing against him, teasing, looking into his eyes…. wanting to feel that energy.
I just don’t know where to begin. I have started on this journey of liberation and for me it’s about easily giving and receiving to have an incredible experience each time. It’s become a journey and a quest to be uninhibited and liberated from sex being taboo and only something you do when you are in love to it being and incredible experience of two people coming together and fusing our energies.
Kama Sutra is primarily about specific sexual techniques, e. g., kissing, biting, slapping, touching, sexual intercourse positions, talking, etc. Tantra is a spiritual practice, elevating sex to sacred sex, focusing a great deal on emotional connection and intimacy, working with the hot sexual energy, and awakening the higher spiritual consciousness by consciously working with sexual energy.
That being said, there is no need to pick one or the other. You can explore both, e. g., through our published books, our electronic books, our videos and our membership website. We offer depth instruction in both Tantra and Kama Sutra. You may also find a weekend workshop (for couples) to be quite useful.
Published Books by Al Link and Pala Copeland (If you prefer to learn by reading a book you can hold in your hands. )
eBooks and Audiobooks by Al Link and Pala Copeland (If you enjoy reading a book on your computer screen or handheld device. )
Videos (DVDs) by Al Link and Pala Copeland (If you prefer to learn by watching videos. )
Tantra Home Study Course DVD (NOTE: This is a complete learning curriculum including detailed learning outcomes, questions for review and reflection. Also included is an electronic manual of text instruction.)
Kama Sutra Home Study Course DVD (NOTE: This is a complete learning curriculum including detailed learning outcomes, questions for review and reflection. Also included is an electronic manual of text instruction.)
Sexy Spiritual Relationships Membership Website
Here you can access our entire body of work from the past 20 years, for a very low monthly fee. Most of our published books, electronic books and videos are available at our membership website. This might be the best place to start, as you could take a look at all or our materials for one very low price. Obviously it would cost much more to get everything we have produced if you purchase all of the items separately. We add new material continuously to the membership site as it is released.
Workshops and Retreats Hosted by Al Link and Pala Copeland (If you prefer personal instruction from a teacher.)
Held monthly in our home near Ottawa Ontario Canada. Only three couples per weekend!